Nice comment

Someone commented that it is "nice" that I am trying to establish a different phrase for a different love. It's not like I say the same thing over and over to different girlfriends. Such a statement made me think. I do appreciate such a comment and I know that it was a compliment, and I am thankful for that. However it has made me think.

Do we have more than one love or is there just one true love for us out there? I'm sure I will be opening up a can of worms with what I am about to say. I don't think that we have different loves. Sure we can think that we are in love, but if it doesn't work out, it's probably just a misconception of love or a strong case of liking. At most, it could be a love but not in the real romantic sense.

I can almost imagine all of you out there salivating to refute my statements. Well, I do believe that there is only one true love out there for each of us. I guess that's what adds to my being a romantic.

My heart will not beat for two people, that's just not possible. Nor will my being ever yearn for different individuals. It's just the one time big time that's out there for me. All or nothing at all.

Let's say that some guy falls madly in love with a girl, I mean truly in love. Shit happens and the girl dies. The guy moves on and falls madly in love with another girl. Twice in his life he has fallen in love. What happens when all of them meet in heaven? I doubt that the phrase "threesome" exists up there. Hell maybe, but not in heaven. (so why go to heaven then? )

But seriously, do you think it's possible to love, i mean truly love, as in the real thing love more than once?